BoldlyU Magazine Nov 2017 Indy Issue | Page 45

H ST RICT LY T WEENS Survive Your Siblings During the Holidays! Getting along with siblings during the holidays can be a real challenge. Brothers and sisters can fight over just about anything…anything. Here are a few tips to help you find some common ground and keep the peace. 1. Cool Down When you get into a heated argument, step away and take some time by yourself to cool down. After you cool down, go back and say, “I’m sorry. Can we talk it out now?” 2. Spend one-on-one t ime wit h each ot her How can you have a good relationship with some- one if you don’t spend time with them? Be involved with their lives. Find out what they like and learn more about it. When you spend time together, you’ll find you have a lot more in common than you think. 3. Apologize firs t Take the high road and always be the first to apolo- gize. Be mature, even when your siblings aren’t. I'm Sorry 4. Pick your battles Some things just aren’t worth fighting over. Learn to let it go sometimes. It’s as simple as that…pick your battles. Emily, 12 November/December 2017 45