Living My Dream As A
Plus-Size Model
An Interview with Lisa Gail
FEATURE
Q: What made you decide to pursue Plus Size Modeling as a hobby?
LG My journey into plus size modeling came about by happenstance. I was at a point in my life where I no longer wanted to be a workaholic and was looking for something to occupy my time in a positive manner. A Face Book group I was in was putting together a project for a coffee table book to showcase women who considered themselves over 40 and fabulous and were willing to share how they had overcome adversity. I was very intimidated at the thought of participating in such a venture because of my plus size stature and the knowledge that I would have to be transparent enough to share my story.
Basically, I did not think I was “good enough” to be a part of the project and was afraid of other people’s judgment. But having lived a good portion of my adult life in some kind of fear or another, I wanted to step outside of my comfort zone. I talked to a few close friends and my daughter and youngest son, expressing my concerns, and they all told me to go for it. And I did. The funny thing was there were two scheduled photo shoot sessions and I got sick both times, though, I still showed up for one and had to do a makeup session for the other. Through the entire process everyone was encouraging, positive, and helped build the courage and self esteem of those who needed it, me included. The funny thing is that most of the folk involved would not know that I was terrified during the process. I was great at lifting up others, not so good at building myself up. After the encouragement I received and the tremendous boost to my self esteem I wanted to explore more. I started asking questions about modeling, did some research, started going to model calls, and participating in local fashion shows. I’ve got a long way to go but I’m on my way.
Q: What things did you learn about yourself as you got into the work?
LG I learned to accept myself for who I am. That no one can define who you are. They can try and label you but that does not mean you have to accept it. I stand on God’s word which declares, “I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well." Psalms 139:14
I learned that I absolutely love to change my style, which is already somewhat eclectic. I am diverse, adventurous, and resilient. I am my own brand! There is not another me in the entire world and that’s just fine with me. I’m am confident, strong, courageous, and understanding of myself and others.
Everyone has a story to tell. Own yours!