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By Sharon Ndlovu

RELATIONSHIPS

Blink Lifestyles

HOW TO CREATE

YOUR OWN L VE STORY
Love is a beautiful thing, and we have the power to create our own love story.

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elationships aren't a
walk in a park but for a
relationship to work
and become beautiful both
partners needs to work at it
and make it work. You have to
put in the effort to make it
work. Every love life has its
own ups and down but some
relationships survive and
make it to the top. The
beautiful relationships you
see out there, they are not a
fairytale, it took two people to
invest in it and make it work.
Many complain that they not
having a good relationship
and their partners are bad,
that's why some even cheat
because they not taking the
time to invest in their
relationships. Here are some
of the tips on how you can
create your own love story
and make your relationship
work.

DO THINGS TOGETHER,
WORK TOGETHER & SHARE
IDEAS TOGETHER.

GO OUT FOR A PICNIC
TOGETHER

Despite the busy schedule that you and
your partner have, make time and go out
It's a good thing to do things with your
for a picnic and enjoy yourselves and get
partner; you can do certain things together. some fresh air. Some partners don't like
spending too much money when they go
One day just sit down with your partner,
share your ideas, and share your future goals out and that's why many they avoid going
out for lunch or anything where, they
together.
prefer to take their girlfriends/boyfriend at
a shisanyama down the road. One day just
think of something romantic that will
Be each other's best friend. It's so amazing
lighten up your partner, a picnic is not
and beautiful when couples work together
expensive, you just buy few things, drinks,
for a brighter future. When you do that it
find a perfect place then you chill with your
helps you to stand by each other through
woman/ your man.You can do anything
the darkest moments in life, you can be each rather than picnic, you go out for a movie
or something.
other's inspiration. When one is down and
failed to get that contract or job etc.You are COOK TOGETHER ONE DAY
there to lift up your partner and give them
strength to carry on and not give up.

LEARN TO PLAY TOGETHER
PRAY TOGETHER.
AS A COUPLE.

Find a hobby with your partner that both of
you will enjoy doing. It is good to play
together with your partner, having some
quality time together just having fun with no
interruption. For example you can play
games like PlayStation, fast cars games or
anything that you might enjoy doing. It
creates a bond between the two of you, you
are able to become open to your partner
and you create that sense of being best
buddies.

Some partners hate touching pots {Laughs}.
Have a day were you will cook together,
discuss what you want to cook for dinner
or lunch. Write down the list, and go
It's important to pray together as a couple
shopping, challenge each other to learn
about each other's cooking skills. It helps
because there is power in prayer and it
you to know your partner even better than
overcomes obstacles that we face in our
before. If your partner can't cook, just
invite them to your place and cook
everyday lives. When a couple prays
together, he/she will learn something new
together, they allow God to be the center of from you. It helps you to enjoy each other's
company and you are creating beautiful
their love life and a solid strong foundation
memories together.
is created. No matter what challenges may
come to distract and destroy what you have
Love is a beautiful t