Blessed Magazine October/November, 2013 Volume 7 | Page 14

Something to Think About How to Stop Being Feeling jealous is pretty natural, but what it really does it pull you down. Here's are 9 tips to help you deal with jealousy and take control of your lifeā€¦ ?Identify the situation that's triggering your feelings of jealousy ?Build your self-confidence ?Avoid comparing yourself to other people ?Have reasonable expectations about how much time someone can devote to you ?Do the opposite of what a jealous person would do ?Recognize the paranoia that is a part of jealousy ?Be trusting ?Listen to your feelings because they're telling you something valuable ?Develop an optimistic view of people Conclusion: Never let your feelings of jealousy push you to abuse someone, verbally or physically. If you can't control your anger, then you need to get some help. You can ask your friends that you can trust or someone who knows how to keep your anger away.