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pregnancy BY FIONA DILL Creating a Good Birth Experience For many women, birth can be a highly emotive topic. I think we would all agree that there are few things more important or as special as bringing life into the world. However, at a time when birth is safer than it has ever been, why do we find so few women who can say “I had a good birth experience”? would like to suggest that it is because the definition of a good birth is more than just the physical health of the mother and baby, but is also about the psychological impact of labour and birth. You will often hear…. ‘as long as the mother and baby are healthy that is all that matters’. But it seems that perhaps this is not enough, when we are considering the future well being of mother and baby. Ask any child development specialist, and they will tell you that the best predic- tor of a baby’s future wellbeing, educational attainment, mental health and happiness is the quality of the bond formed between that child and his primary caregivers in the hours, days, months after birth. When a 16