Hunting and Gathering Missions
The reckless go-getter
Most women also admitted to
borrowing men from other women
solely for material comfort and
satisfaction. They put less emphasis on
marriage as it is nothing but a means to
ground and control women. They stick
to being ‘Plan B' rather than having
their choices and lifestyles managed.
An assurance that they would have
personal freedom and quench their
self-gratifications for a less demanding
role is satisfactory. Making men feel like
kings while their wives do their laundry
is intimidating. “I get expensive shoes
and designer bags from my loaned lover
and we have quite a good time together.
I know it won’t last a lifetime but who
cares? Why not enjoy myself while it
prevails,” middle-aged woman remarks.
For most independent women, getting
to the top is a must! They would kill
to be on top and so, for such women
who have the achievement-fever and
are more-than-prepared to go the
extra mile for the title, using someone
at the top to give them a lift could be
more than just a strategy, especially if
the boss is married. When 30-year old
Dynar found promotions slagging on
her side, she figured out that the easy
way round to climb the career ladder
was to acquaint herself intimately
with her boss. “I knew very well that
he was married. But I needed that job
post. So I thought to myself, why not
scratch his back when it’s itchy? After
all, I’m not pleading him to walk me
to the altar.”