4. You Enjoy Your Space
It is a lovely thing to be able to enjoy your
own space. During times of solitude – be it
an alone weekend or on a night break on
the beach – we allow for self-development and
introspection. This is very healthy and helps us
to become more well-rounded people. Sometimes, however, while we want a companion in
life we don’t necessarily want to share all of
that space with them. This is perfectly understandable and anyone worth their salt will respect that and give you your space. If they are
happy to give you your space you will know you
are on
the
5. You Don’t Suffer Fools
Over the years, you’ve learned not to
entertain people who seem highly
likely to waste your time. Through
experience, you’ve figured out who
these people are likely to be and you
don’t take long in releasing them from
your life. This is truly wonderful. Wisdom is a great reward. The path to
meeting someone who is truly right
for you is clear because of this gift.
6. You Have Your Independence
You learn to look after yourself in every
way when you are single. You work so you
have your own money and you have your
friends and family for company. There
comes a point when you can survive easily
if you never met someone. The choice is
ours when we reach this point. We can do
as we wish – we have no need to meet
someone unless we really do want to fall in
love.
7. You Want a Meaningful Relationship
As we grow older we want a relationship that will be rewarding and meaningful. We want to be on the same page as our new date. We want to have a lot in
common, be able to talk together and have that physical attraction at the same
time. It’s not good enough anymore to simply hook up with the first person we
feel attracted to and hope for the best; as mature people we want more. Real
love is what we look for as we mature and while that may be harder to find, it
lasts longer and it’s far more rewarding. So take your time for, when you find
them, they will be a good fit, for a long time.