Do you find it hard
It’s a Good Sign
to fall in love?
When we are young, we never listen to anyone and fall in
love with the wrong people time and again – people who
don’t treat us well. But we often don’t care as long as we
get the one we want.
By Joseph Rutakangwa
As we mature, we slowly learn that to be treated well, not
only should we demand respect but I also have to become
1. You Love
more selective in finding partners – and that’s how it gets tricky.
Yourself
Here’s why the struggle to fall in love is a good sign.
As we mature, many
of us learn that to move on in a positive way
we must learn to love ourselves. When it
comes to love, many people shy away from a
partner who is only attentive to themselves –
and these are the kind of partners you want
to avoid. You want to attract a partner who
appreciates your worth and admires your
ability to put yourself first.
2. You Have a Full Life
If you have been single for a while you have
probably filled your life with very interesting things. Fun activities, family visits, holidays and work all take up your time. You
can re-prioritize if that is your wish. You
can juggle some things around to fit in a
prospective partner and see how it goes. It is
entirely up to you how much time you wish
to devote to a significant other. Make it
work for you.
3. You’re Self Protective
Some of us have been seriously hurt by
someone we held dear and these wounds take a long time to heal. We can become weary of meeting someone new and put up our guard. Being selfprotective is not innately a bad thing. If anything, this is the intelligent thing
to do. Why would anyone rush back into another relationship for the same
thing to happen again? The more careful we are the less likely we are to fall in
love with a loser or a user.