Badassery Magazine October 2017 Issue 17 | Page 9

A lthough we’ve all fallen up the stairs or, if you’re like me, walked into a door frame, humans are capable of incredible feats. There’s a lot of discussion these days about women: about our power to bring about life and our instinct to care. We have more capacity than we realise. labeling feelings? • Mindfulness doesn’t need to mean sitting cross-legged in silence. • No one told me that I am resilient: able to bounce back when life knocks me down. I was twenty-five before I re- alised just how much control I have over my own life. Not only can we make it through this never-ending day, and run marathons, but we experience love and loss, we can fall into depression and breakdown with worry only to lift ourselves back up and keep on walking. But there are individuals of every age and lifestyle who still aren’t aware of their own power. Are you? We are all inherently strong, yet so many of us struggle to connect with that inner fire that empow- ers us to manage stressful expe- riences. -> Pause and Reflect. When I was growing up, I was told to be quiet, to sit still, to eat all my dinner, and if I was cry- ing, the answer in my household was “she’s just tired.” Even when I was 14-years-old. Three Steps to Reclaim Your Inner Strength Stop what you’re doing, when you’ve read this paragraph and just ‘check-in’ with your body. Are you hot or cold? What about hungry? Are you in pain anywhere? How are you feeling, emotional- ly? Can you meet any of these needs? Take 30 seconds to grab some water or stretch out your legs. How often do we just… exis