A Here’ s a way to keep your towels clean and avoid a CSIlike situation: Try Flex, a new disposable menstrual disc that holds five tampons’ worth of fluid, meaning you can safely wear it for 12 hours at a time($ 20 for 8, flexfits. com). To insert it, just pinch the ring in half, slide it up in your vaginal canal, and push the front of it down( instead of up like a tampon), to position the ring at the base of your cervix.( Not as hard as it sounds, promise!) And because Flex is shallow, unlike the deeper DivaCup, you can wear it during oral and vaginal sex without making a mess.“ It’ s a game changer,” says one of our testers, who used it with her guy.“ It stayed in place and didn’ t leak, thank god. Afterward, he said he didn’ t even notice.” |
Q My boyfriend is uncircumcised. Are there certain positions that will feel better for us both? |
A Uncut guys have even more nerve endings, so try the super-cuddly Bent Spoons, suggests sexologist Jill McDevitt, PhD. You get to be the little spoon, but before he enters you, bend at the waist so your top half is perpendicular to his body. This angle makes you feel supertight, which creates good gliding for his foreskin while also giving him a direct route to your G-spot. But you don’ t need to reinvent your sex game just because your guy’ s got something extra down there.“ Many men report that the foreskin’ s friction against the vaginal walls already makes sex feel amazing,” McDevitt says.“ No special positions required!” |
“ IS IT THE BUZZ … OR ARE WE JUST AMAZING AT THIS?” |
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