Baby's and Beyond Volume 13 I Issue 2 | Página 19

You learn so much more about your partner during this time...

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You learn so much more about your partner during this time...
Above all else, they hope their daughters grow up witnessing love in action.
“ We’ ve created a home where our partnership is visible – where parents respect, support and love one another,” they say.“ We want our home to feel safe, steady and truly full of love, even on the hard days.” explains.“ Now I focus on harmony – all the parts working together.” Rather than stretching himself thin, he has become more selective about projects, prioritising work that allows him to remain present at home.“ Great time management is critical,” he says.“ It allows me to stay focused on my career while still being fully present with my wife and daughters.”
For Savanah, priorities have shifted too.“ I’ ve always been extremely careerfocused,” she says.“ But now my girls and my family are my priority.”
Still, she treasures the ability to hold both identities at once.“ I love being a doctor, and I think it’ s amazing that I get to be both a present mom and an ambitious doctor,” she adds. so excited to see twin girls,” they say.“ To witness that joy and have people share it with us is priceless.”
Embracing the chaos
“ It truly takes a village to raise children,” says Savanah.“ We couldn’ t do this without our amazing village.”
And if there is one message they hope other parents take away from their story, it is this:“ It’ s hard, but it’ s absolutely beautiful. It’ s exhausting yet incredibly fulfilling. Celebrate the imperfections. Embrace the chaos. Take it one day at a time.”
And when they picture the future? Chad quips:“ Hopefully I will win the parents’ race at school one day.” �
Balancing career, creativity and caregiving
As a doctor, Savanah assumed her medical knowledge would make the transition into motherhood easier. Instead, she quickly discovered that being a mother is an entirely different and humbling experience.
“ Dr Savanah and Savanah the mom are two very different people,” she says.“ During those early stages, I felt like all my medical knowledge went out the window.” Despite her considerable expertise, she still often found herself second-guessing decisions and seeking reassurance from paediatricians.
“ I’ d message my paediatrician with questions I already knew the answers to,” she laughs.“ But as a new mom I just needed to seek that reassurance from other healthcare professionals.” Over time, her confidence grew, but she still prefers to simply be“ Mom” to her girls.
For Chad, who balances music, radio work and his role at Stereotype Talent Management, fatherhood has also shifted his perspective on ambition and balance.
“ I’ ve stopped aiming for balance,” he
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Music, meaning and the unexpected joys
Creativity already fills the twins’ daily lives.“ There’ s music in the morning, down-tempo music during bath and feed times, and relaxing music at bedtime,” Chad shares.
While he admits this season has inspired him creatively, he’ s waiting for the right moment to translate those emotions into new music.“ As soon as I have the capacity I’ ll start writing again and putting these thoughts into songs.”
But what has surprised them most is the overwhelming joy the twins bring, not only to them, but to everyone around them.“ We get stopped everywhere we go by strangers who are
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