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Teach self-regulation and excellence
In his book, Confidence, Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic says,“ The reasons exceptional achievers excel is not that they never had bad experiences.” Similarly, teaching children to manage screen time is not about forbidding it but rather, cultivating a strong sense of internal mastery and empowering them to hold themselves to high standards. Encourage them to plan their day, allocating specific times for screen use and other activities. This fosters responsibility and decisionmaking, guiding them towards excellence in managing their own time.”
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Create memorable moments
Creating indelible memories with our kids from a young age allows us to prioritise experiences that build lasting bonds and joy this holiday. The screen won’ t remember your family picnic in the park or the laughter shared over a board game. Embrace the spontaneous moments – the lazy mornings spent reading together, the impromptu dance parties, or simply enjoying ice lollies together. These are the moments that truly enrich your children’ s lives, leaving them beaming with confidence and a heart full of cherished memories.
Understand the importance of secure attachments
Underneath all the fun and games, the foundation for healthy development lies in secure attachments. Spending quality, connected time with your children free from the distractions of screens provides a secure base from which they can confidently explore the world, both digital and real.
This December, let’ s make screen time a conscious choice rather than a default setting. By embracing a balanced approach, nurturing diverse interests, teaching self-regulation, and prioritising memorable moments, we can empower our children to have a truly enriching and joyful holiday, cultivating confidence that extends far beyond the glow of a screen. �
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