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36 came about in the first place: ‘We never used to have this problem before! Before nobody used to insult me if I did not bring back anything. So it was a mistake to bring anything in the first place. I brought it twice and when I forgot the third time, I had problems. So it is not worth having worldly interactions with these people’. Do you know how kshatriyas deal with people? They will lay down their lives for others but they will also expect the same from them in return. They will not hesitate to give their own life or take someone else’s. They are big speculators in business and their dealings are extravagant in all aspects of life. I could not afford this ‘I-will-give-you-my-head-but-I-will-also-take-off- yours’ mentality. I did not want anyone’s head and what if he was to come for mine? I wanted no part of any such transactions and that is why I decided that it was best to live with the vaniks. Someone asked me if I knew why Ravan lost his empire. I asked him, ‘Why did he lose his empire? Why don’t you tell me?’ He proceeded, ‘Ravan would not have lost his empire if he had a vanik as his advisor.’ I asked him in what way and he said that when Narad told Ravan about Sita and her exquisite beauty and charm, Ravan became very tempted and made up his mind that one way or another he was going to have her. Now if Ravan had a vanik as his advisor, he would have said, ‘Sir, be patient a little longer because I have seen another, even more beautiful woman.’ This way he would have been successful in diverting Ravan from that critical moment which led to his demise. If a person is diverted at the most critical of moments, he will live to be one hundred. This is what the man told me. I told him there was a lot of wisdom in what he said and that we definitely need to be guided during such critical moments. That is why I chose to live between two vaniks for forty years.