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4. Ask for it
Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. If you want something
from your partner, ask. If you need help, ask for it. Somewhere
along the line, we have associated asking for help as a sign of
weakness. Asking for help is actually an attribute of the wise. There
are all sorts of resources available to us, both physical and metaphysical, if we are wise enough to use them. I was talking with a
good friend recently about what I would like to work on, and she
said, “Don’t forget to ask.” And in that moment, I had realized that
I had not spent any time in prayer to ask for help on these things. It
is such an oversight, as the old adage of “Ask and you shall receive” is entirely true. Metaphysically speaking, there is an entire
Universe of beings waiting to be of service to you in your earthly
life. How foolish would it be to not use such a gift? When asking
for help in a relationship, you may not always get exactly what you
ask for, but it is important that each person know the needs of the
other so compromises can be made and the cord of energy connecting the two of you remains healthy and balanced.

5. Take stock of your gratitude
Gratitude, gratitude, gratitude! The number one agent of transformation! We attract the kind of energy we give out. The more we
express our gratitude for the things we have now, the more likely we are to attract more of the same. Misery begets misery, but joy
begets joy! How can your life improve if you don’t see your current life worthy of improving? Are you so unhappy in your relationship that you can’t appreciate anything about the other person right now? That does not leave room for positive transformation
at all. Are you struggling in your relationship, but take the time to express the little things you love about the other person? That is
what will pave the way to more love, and that is what will transform your relationship and your life. Are you still looking for that
partner you long for? Go into meditation and focus in on the energy of your mate, even if you don’t know who that is yet. Simply
feel the loving energy of your mate. Get to know it. Then express gratitude for it. If you are grateful