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Aptavani-9
Questioner: But I have a habit of making intense mental
notes.
Dadashri: That habit will now go down now that you
have heard this satsang. Do you not understand all this? From
the moment you hear this; you will start making fewer notes. You
keep an intense mental note of your wife too, do you not?
Questioner: Yes.
Dadashri: The ‘wife’ whom you call your own! You
keep a note even about her? And she does the same about you.
If you say something to her, she will say to herself, ‘Wait till I
have my moment.’ That is not true love; it is aasakti
(infatuation). True love will lessen or change. ‘Our’ love is true
love. ‘We’ never make a note of anything.
Questioner: With your grace (krupa) this can happen
fast.
Dadashri: ‘Our’ grace and blessing is always there but
what can anyone do when you do not want to get rid of it
yourself? ‘My wife did this, she did that,’ do you not do the
same, so why are you accusing your wife? She will make an
intense mental note when you make an intense mental note.
‘We’ do not make a note of anyone and so no one makes a
note of ‘us’. They do not make a note even when ‘we’ scold
them. Why do you have to make a note when ‘we’ have
stopped doing so? Is your wife going to leave you alone when
you make notes of her? It is good that this man here is not
married, otherwise would he not start making notes of his wife?
‘We’ never make any note about anyone. Also ‘we’ do not talk
about one person to another.
Destroy mistakes scientifically
Questioner: Dada what is the reason behind one making
intense mental notes?
Dadashri: One does not realize the harm it causes and