Aptavani-9
159
Dadashri: Yes otherwise, the notebook will eventually fill
up resulting in negativity and then it will change the inner vision
(drashti) towards the other person. When the other person sees
you, he will be able to sense it in the way you look at him. Will
the other person not know about the note you have made
about him? He will immediately know that you have made a
note of something he said to you a while ago. These people may
not know how to see anything else but they do know how to
look in your eyes about the notes you make. But in ‘our’ eyes
they see vitaragata (the detached state) and immediately realize
that Dada is the same as he was. They see vitaragata in ‘our’
eyes. Just as you can recognize a man’s immoral intent from his
eyes or recognize a greedy person from his eyes, similarly you
can recognize a vitarag from his eyes. When there is no
agitation, fidgety sign in the eyes it means that nothing has been
noted within.
Where there is love, there is no nondha
(intense mental note)
The love that arises should be such that it neither increases
nor decreases; you need that kind of love. Real love is love that
will not decrease for the person who insults you or curses you.
The love that increases or decreases is really an infatuation
(aasakti). If any love begins to increase or decrease, then it
becomes an infatuation (aasakti). In health too, when health
goes up or down, it is referred to as disease. When the son
comes home from earning good money, he is praised, ‘Hey son,
you did a great job!’ and when he loses money a few years
later, the father will say, ‘He is crazy. I have told him so many
times that I am tired of telling him. It has given me a
headache!’ This is aasakti! Instead, the opinion that we have
in ‘our college (Akram Vignan)’ is preferable. It remains with
us, forever the same.
Questioner: It is the same between a husband and a