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physical weakness. If the other man is strong, he will let him
take his wife away.
So nothing belongs to you; everything is of the non-Self.
If you want to live the worldly life, then become strong in it and
if you want to go to moksha, then become worthy of it. When
even your own body is not your own, how can the wife be
yours? How can the daughter be yours? So you should think
about all this in advance; think about what you should do if
someone were to take your wife away from you.
Therefore, nothing that is destined to occur can be
changed; such is vyavasthit. Therefore do not have any fear.
That is why it has been said that it is vyavasthit. As long as one
is spared of witnessing a scene of infidelity, one carries on
saying, ‘my wife…my wi