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because others say so?‘ We’ have never said anything about anybody and‘ we’ will never do so.‘ We’ do not interfere. Who would want to take on the liability? You should never be suspicious about anyone’ s character. It carries a great danger.‘ We’ never become suspicious. Why should‘ we’ take on the liability?
How much strain should you put on your eyes in the dark?
Questioner: What adjustment should one take if he has developed a habit of viewing everything with suspicion( shankashil)?
Dadashri: When you see inappropriate conduct in someone, was it not there before? Do you think it has come about all of a sudden? So you should understand that this is what the world is all about. You should never judge anyone’ s character in these times of Kaliyug. It is like this everywhere in the current time cycle. It may not be clearly visible but the mind will become ruined for sure. In all this, a woman’ s character is a museum filled with illusion( moha) and deceit( kapat), and that is why they are born as women. The best way amidst all this is for one to become free from all sexuality.
Questioner: We realize that is the way it is in sexual conduct, nevertheless, when the mind becomes suspicious, one becomes engrossed( tanmayakar) in it. What adjustment should one take there?
Dadashri: After becoming the Self, do not get involved in anything. All that( suspicions etc.,) belongs to the‘ foreign department’; to the non-Self. You should remain in the‘ home department’( the Self). Stay in your real Self! You will not find Gnan such as this again so get your work done. One man constantly used to be suspicious about his wife.‘ We’ asked him why he was suspicious about his wife. Was he suspicious because he saw something? And if that was the case, was the