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Aptavani-6
And those opinions cannot be ‘Ours,’ they are all of
‘Chandubhai.’ ‘I’ am the pure Soul (Shuddhatma) that ‘Dada’
gave me’ and Shuddhatma is parmatma – the supreme Self.
It is important to understand this much. These five Agnas that
have been given to You – they are for the protection of the
Shuddhatma, the state of the Self.
Factory of Vengeance
The law of settling with equanimity (sambhave nikaal)
says that whatever it takes, You should settle with the other
person without binding/causing a new karma of vengeance (veyr).
Become free from the karma of vengeance. There is only one
thing worth doing here, and that is to ensure that vengeance
does not increase and multiply. And what is the main factory for
producing vengeance (veyr)? It is male and female sexual
interaction.
Questioner: How does that bind vengeance? How is a
seed of vengeance for infinite lifetimes planted?
Dadashri: It is like this: If we can put some kind of
medicines in a dead man or a dead woman and make them look
as if they are alive, then having a sexual interaction with them is
not a problem. With them, you will not bind vengeance because
they are not living. However, these are living beings and so you
will bind vengeance.
Questioner: Why is vengeance bound there?
Dadashri: It is because the opinions (abhipraay) of the
two are different, that is why! If you say, ‘I want to go see a
movie,’ she will say, ‘No I want to go to see a play.’ Therefore,
the timings (opinions) do not match. If the timings match exactly
then go ahead and get married!
Questioner: Nevertheless, there are some people for
whom whatever they say they want, it does happen.