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Questioner: Then what should I do?
Dadashri: You have to improve yourself first. You have
to become such that no one has to use deceit towards you. No
one uses deceit towards me. Others will be deceitful towards
you only if there is deceit in you, otherwise they will never do
so. All they present to you is your own photograph. It is all your
own reflection.
Questioner: We might have some karmic account with
him; is that why the other person employs deceit towards us?
Dadashri: You have to let go the issue of karmic account.
It is not possible to avoid the account. Even I cannot avoid the
account that unfolds in front of me.
It is not possible for you to change anything. So what is
the point of all the fuss? The other person’s deception remains
the same; on the contrary, it increases. When you holler and
rant, he will think you are worthless and shouting for nothing.
This only leads to the other person making more mistakes and
to continue ignoring you as being worthless.
Questioner: What is the solution for this?
Dadashri: He should be so impressed by you that he will
not employ any deception towards you at all. There is no need
for you to use all these other methods. Remain silent instead of
becoming angry. Anger is not a meaningful weapon.
Questioner: Do we have to keep seeing and not do
anything if someone is stealing goods through deception?
Dadashri: Anger is not a weapon to use for that. Sit him
down and explain things to him. Ask him to think things through.
Then everything can be resolved.
Questioner: The doctor has told him he has high blood
pressure and that he should not eat certain things. However, he