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reason to insult anyone? But these harsh words come forth in order to rid the other person of all his‘ diseases’.
What does Kavi say?
‘ The one, whom Dada calls‘ mooah’( mortal)!, becomes ajar amar( ageless and immortal). When dada‘ tells off’ someone by referring to him as a‘ mooah’, it will destroy many of his sins. Dada’ s insult, on the contrary, is a blessing for him.’
Someone may ask,“ Why is Dada speaking harshly with this man?” What can Dada do when the man has brought such a vyavahar? Some people are worthless and yet Dada will not raise his voice at them. Does that not tell you how wonderful a vyavahar they have brought? Those who have brought harsh vyavahar with them will experience harsh words from‘ us’.
Sometimes at home,‘ we’ get served tea without any sugar.‘ We’ drink it without saying a word. Many times even Hiraba( wife of Dadashri) is not aware of this, she will only realize it if she drinks the tea herself.‘ We’ do not have to say anything as far as the daily activities are concerned.‘ We’ only have to say anything if something new is being installed in the house, but putting sugar in the tea is routine. It is only today that she forgot the sugar, so what is the need for saying anything. To put sugar in the tea is vyavahar and so if tea without sugar is served,‘ we’ would understand that that is the vyavahar of the day. Therefore,‘ we’ would drink the tea without saying anything.
What kind of justice in vyavahar?
Vyavahar is the very thing that creates entanglements and problems everywhere. There is no connection between vyavahar and justice. People look for justice, however justice is not something one should seek or call for. If a mother-in-law mistreats her daughter-in-law, that is vyavahar and it is also vyavahar if she treats her with respect and care. This body( pudgal) would not exist if there was no vyavahar. There will be