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( mithyatvi) people, yet their dhyan( inner state) changes completely.
The Lord has said that no conflicts prevail in dharmadhyan. Money may increase or decrease, but one should be free of conflicts. It is hard to find a home where there are no conflicts. Differences of opinions are considered conflicts and where there is conflict there is the worldly life. He, whose conflicts are destroyed, is considered to have come into the state of Godhood.
Conflicts start out small and then turn into major ones. Conflicts and differences of opinion really waste the human life away; a life that is earned with great difficulty. Whatever amount of time one spends in conflicts is the amount of time one binds for a life in the animal kingdom. A person of virtue will not bind a life in the animal kingdom.
Bhagwan is the one without clash
Questioner: What if someone clashes with us even when we do not want to?
Dadashri: Yes, that is how the world is. That is why‘ we’ tell you to find yourself such a‘ cave’ that no one knows about and no one can find. Otherwise, people will track you down no matter where you are and clash with you. In the end, even the mosquitoes will come in the night and trouble you. They will not leave you in peace. Having attained this human life, if you do not want to regress into a lower life form( adhogati), then do not allow clashes to occur with anyone. Once you destroy your own clashes and help others do the same, you will attain a status where people will look upon you with reverence( lokpujya).
The atma( soul, the Self), itself is parmatma( fully enlightens Self), hence it is lokpujya( worthy of reverence by all), but even the pudgal( the relative self; the physical