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CANDACE: I feel bad for men, too, because I think they’re just as much in the dark as women are when it comes to hormonal issues. I make sure my girls know about this. My boys, too. They giggle and laugh all day about it, but I say, “Hey, you’re not going to be 19 and 25 years old for the rest of your life, and there’s going to come a time when you’ll need to know about this!” I never heard about any of this from my mother. NICOLE: Isn’t it liberating to be able to talk about all of this? With HRT, I feel so much better. Even when I’m just out and about, I feel like I have my happiness, my silliness, my confidence back. things were happening with me, too, and all of that caused my marriage to end. I didn’t want anyone to touch me when I was having a hot flash! SUE: Exactly! And they tend to take that personally. CANDACE: But now, when I get my next pellet, I feel like I’m 21 again. You can tell the difference between when you first get a pellet and when you know you need another. You know when you’re ready. SUE: I’ve been taking HRT for a SUE: It gives you “you” back. while, and I’ve found that the pellets work much better than creams. They’re a steady dosage and a lot more exact. And every three to four months, you just have your hormone levels checked and then get another pellet. It’s so easy! NICOLE: It does! And the sad thing CANDACE: More and more doctors CANDACE: It’s a state of mind! is, you don’t even know you lost it. SUE: Right! Because it’s a gradual thing, and you just accept it and think, “Well, I’m getting older.” NICOLE: And all of these symptoms are because of the same thing: menopause. My husband and I eventually wound up getting divorced because neither of us could understand what was happening. We’d been married for 22 years, and there just came a point where I said, “I’m done.” I just didn’t know what I was going through. word out. I’m passionate about telling my story. Ladies, when you start feeling symptoms, if somebody wants to put you on antidepressants, do your research first. This kind of HRT works! WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT HORMONE REPLACEMENT THERAPY? Call 586-677-5022 for a free copy of Dr. Mok’s book, Testosterone: Strong Enough for a Man, Made for a Woman are now stepping up and realizing that we need to go this route because it’s “curing” women of their menopausal symptoms. But it’s going to take a long time before testosterone pellets are mainstream. I will be forever grateful to Dr. Mok and this therapy because it gave me my life back. NICOLE: Yes! I wanted to come in today and participate in this roundtable to help get the CANDACE: Without HRT, I probably would be divorced by now, too. There was a two-year period where things weren’t good. It’s not that you don’t love your husband, but your libido just isn’t there. Now, my husband says, “You’re back to being happy again. You’re back to being funny and easygoing again. It’s good to see you’re back! I have my wife again.” NICOLE: I know what you mean. I wanted to spend time with my husband and go on vacations and trips with him, but the same kinds of 2017 SUMMER 27