AIM # 3 JAS 2017 | Page 9

Issue 3 JAS 2017 Explore FYI Research – Self Control, not self- esteem, is the key to success Roy Baumeister, social psychologist, Professor at Florida State University and co-author of ‘Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength’ says, ‘Self Control is the best gift you can give your child’. He says, after over two decades of study on self-control, ‘whatever you do, you’re likely to do it better if you’re smart and have good self-control. Nobody has found reliable ways of increasing intelligence. But self-control can be improved, which makes it the best way psychology can contribute to society. Our take: Scientific research on self control provides evidence for age-old traditional wisdom that exists across religions. Watch - The Science of Willpower Author of ‘The Willpower Instinct’, Health Psychologist and Stanford University Lecturer, Dr. Kelly McGonigal - talks about what willpower is and how we can get more of it. She defines willpower is the ability to remember what matters most to us and the willingness to do things that support those goals, even when self doubt, physical pain or impulses are present. Highlights: Dr. McGonigal’s articulation of Willpower as having 3 powers - ‘I Will’, ‘I Won’t’, ‘I Want’ is useful in understanding willpower in relation to the bigger purpose - goal. Also effective is her recommendation to look at ‘thanking your present self from your future self’ - as most people look at our future self as complete strangers. 9