Afrotrend Magazine 4th Issue | Page 36

In Zambia BDSM is something that people don't talk about and I still don't know if there is a community but I managed to ask random people and some friends about the movie and how kinky they are and here is what they had to say: Yes, I am. Though personally, I don't like 50 Shades. I feel like Anastasia is a pathetic weak girl who can't stand up for herself. Christian is a sadist who doesn't realize that in order to love a woman he ahs to hurt her first. And the one thing that bothers me. I don't think he ever uses a safe word with her. Maybe I'm wrong on some of these, I couldn't read past the first chapter of the second book. But I don't like it. Anonymous I saw Secretary with Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader. It was lot more kinky and sexy than 50 Shades of Grey. SusieQ I had an encounter with a girl who was into SM. I felt bad at first, I had never um, punished anybody in that way before, but she was really, really enjoying it. Still, it's not really my thing. Anonymous I'd definitely be into BDSM! I think I'd be Anna Steel ;) Lollypop Its a bit soft if we are talking about the movie ,Am not really into BDSM but I am a kinky person .Anonymous To be honest i think it was pathetic, I read the book and a lot of scenes where cut out. and they were not explicit. I am kinky and into BDSM. Anonymous I would say that I am a kinky person though am not into hardcore BDSM, I know some people are but I don't think its for me. I am more into blind folds, handcuffs, ropes and a little bit of spanking. About fifty shades of grey I only wish Ana could actually speak for herself instead of letting a guy make almost all the decisions for you, I think it would have been more interesting if she was stubborn and out spoken...how was Christian going to control her? Anonymous 36