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Dealing with the Over-Churched By Clint Byars I often have people come to our gathering that have recently left another congregation, usually because they didn't feel connected, they were abused, or they were controlled. I see a myriad of responses: people are angry they've never heard the message we’re spreading, people are happy that I'm not manipulating them for money, people fall in love with Jesus again. There is a particular response that I found confusing the first two or three years as a senior pastor. I’ve now come to call it the ‘OverChurched Syndrome’. At first, I thought that people who with this particular mindset were just ‘religious’, but there's a subtle difference to be perceived here that I hope will help you in your church as well. the Over-churched Syndrome 13 In our environment, we don't seek to control people. In fact, we promote just the opposite. Our leadership team works from the philosophy that people should be free to express God naturally, according to their own passions. Too often, churches develop an overly-defined culture in which people have to mold their passions to fit into an aspect of the Pastor’s vision. I believe, instead, that we should find out how people want to express God and use our organization to build people rather than using people to build our organization. In this kind of environment, there is no ladder of leadership to climb, there are no unspoken rules that people must figure out, and there is no culture to which they must conform. Because we don't have this ladder of leadership or an inner circle to squeeze into, those with the Over-Churched Syndrome don’t know