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The first contact with an Ex should be a rebirth of your relationship - and a true rebirth
starts from the beginning.
When you accept that first contact, do it but don’t capitulate to his urges. Make him earn
it. Put him through the “first date” treatment.
Get to know him again for the first time and, more importantly, help him get to know you.
Show Him You’ve Changed
This is a big one.
I’m sure you have daydreams of sitting down with a cup of coffee and listing off
EVERYTHING you’ve been doing since you saw him last.
The hobbies you’ve picked up. The shows you’ve attended. The men you’ve been on
dates with.
It’s not necessary.
Men don’t see the world the same as you and I, but they are VERY perceptive when
they focus their attention on one thing.
When a man looks at you...really looks at you...and sees the changes you’ve made, you
are going to leave an impression.
He is going to see that you are more confident, that you don’t crave his approval for
every word out of your mouth, that you don’t apologize constantly, even when the
reason for it is not immediately clear.
He’s going to see that you ARE different and that is enough.
Listing all the changes you’ve made screams “need for validation”. Hey love, look at all
these things I did...what do you think?
He’s not going to see the changes. He’s going to see a woman just as desperate as
ever for his approval and it will put him on edge.
This is hard. Not needing a man’s approval - or anyone’s approval for that matter - is not
natural. Human beings crave validation and approval of their actions in one form or
another.
True confidence, however, is when you KNOW you’ve made the right decision and don’t
need that validation. It also happens to be one of the sexiest things in the world to a
man.
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