Step 2- Have FUN!
Step 2- Have FUN!
What an insensitive jerk!
That’ s what you’ re thinking right now, isn’ t it? How can I sit here and tell you to go have fun when you JUST got out of a relationship?
Easy, go have fun!
One of the biggest mistakes I see when someone leaves a relationship is the nearly inescapable urge to mope about and drag their feet, avoiding other people, staying home on weekends and HOPING the phone rings( or worse, hoping he answers his).
Beyond the very obvious reason that being happy is such a good healing tool, there is the value of fun. If you have fun, you will be a fun person and a fun person is irresistible to the people around her.
It’ s psychological, physiological and yes, even a little bit of a mind game( he’ s going to die knowing you’ re out there having a blast).
At the same time, a big part of the equation is simply learning how to have fun again, without him there to make it happen. All too often we become slaves to our relationships, defining ourselves in the“ we” and forgetting what you actually enjoy doing.
What hobbies and passions have you long avoided because you were in relationships with men who didn’ t share them with you? What have you always wanted to do? What did you force yourself to enjoy LESS just so you didn’ t feel like you were missing something?
These are the things you must rediscover and, when you do, you’ re going to be blown away by what happens next.
Happiness and Cheerfulness are Irresistible
Imagine you walk into a party and see two couples- one on your right and one on your left.
The couple on your right, Tom and Anna, are laughing and smiling, playfully batting each other on the shoulder and having an amazing time. It doesn’ t matter what they’ re talking about- you can tell it’ s enjoyable.
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