Step 2 - Have FUN !
Step 2 - Have FUN !
What an insensitive jerk !
That ’ s what you ’ re thinking right now , isn ’ t it ? How can I sit here and tell you to go have fun when you JUST got out of a relationship ?
Easy , go have fun !
One of the biggest mistakes I see when someone leaves a relationship is the nearly inescapable urge to mope about and drag their feet , avoiding other people , staying home on weekends and HOPING the phone rings ( or worse , hoping he answers his ).
Beyond the very obvious reason that being happy is such a good healing tool , there is the value of fun . If you have fun , you will be a fun person and a fun person is irresistible to the people around her .
It ’ s psychological , physiological and yes , even a little bit of a mind game ( he ’ s going to die knowing you ’ re out there having a blast ).
At the same time , a big part of the equation is simply learning how to have fun again , without him there to make it happen . All too often we become slaves to our relationships , defining ourselves in the “ we ” and forgetting what you actually enjoy doing .
What hobbies and passions have you long avoided because you were in relationships with men who didn ’ t share them with you ? What have you always wanted to do ? What did you force yourself to enjoy LESS just so you didn ’ t feel like you were missing something ?
These are the things you must rediscover and , when you do , you ’ re going to be blown away by what happens next .
Happiness and Cheerfulness are Irresistible
Imagine you walk into a party and see two couples - one on your right and one on your left .
The couple on your right , Tom and Anna , are laughing and smiling , playfully batting each other on the shoulder and having an amazing time . It doesn ’ t matter what they ’ re talking about - you can tell it ’ s enjoyable .
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