《声音》 VOICES Daystar's VOICES Fall/Winter Edition 2018 | Page 17

DS BEIGAO ES you would like to eat-within the parameters of course. I think our students need to be given an opportunity to make those decisions. So how many students do you have and how do you make sure that they feel engaged? We have 50 students. And we have 6-7 staff members committed to this committee. We have two issues that we are addressing currently. One is hallway safety and the other one is recess safety. We asked the students to choose which project they would like to work on. Once they chose the project we divided them into smaller groups. And one of the staff would listen in. They would be the recorder, they take the notes about the different solutions that they would like to try and also guiding them through this process. Besides the “Leaders in Training”, can you share some other ways that our school is encouraging empowerment? In a lot of cases students are scared to make mistakes. They want to be perfect, because that’s what we require of our students. But in that kind of stressful environment, you’re not empowering them. They’re too scared, to try things and to be risk-takers. So that’s kind of been our focus academically. And in alignment with that, when there are certain problems that arise in the school, instead of the adults sitting in their offices and coming up with a plan, we want to take that back to the student. So we created a group called “Leaders in Training”, where it’s voluntary. We meet every week, on Monday during their snack time. They come in with their snack, they come ready. We go over the agreement, the requirements, talk to them about what it means to be a leader. And they just roll up their sleeves and tackle all these problems. What are some of your solutions, what are your thoughts, what can we do? And we work with them to facilitate discussions and make sure there’s follow through. So that’s the plan of the “Leaders in Training” committee. What are we doing to ensure that it’s really all about the children? I think the students and adults also need to know that their voice matters. And that we are listening to them. Like in the Leaders in training, we would like for the students to be involved in a lot of the decision-making that affects the student body. Like what kind of games should we buy or what kind of recess equipment should we purchase. Not just make that decision on our own. We want the students to tell us what are the things they like to do. Or even food. What are the foods that I think our positive discipline is a great tool that naturally lends itself to empowering students. This is because the issues, and the different conflicts that we face on a daily basis, the model of positive discipline is to focus on the problem, figure out what the problem is, and then work together to focus on the solution. Not merely “let’s punish this child or person” because they made a mistake. Our students also have class meetings. The first couple of months was basically how to sit in a circle, how to listen to one another. One lesson was how to give compliments and receive compliments. How to give affirmations to one another to create that safe environment. That’s why we tell parents don’t be late to school. Because that 15 mins is really important because they are establishing classroom culture. What can parents do at home to foster empowerment? One simple thing that you can do is asking instead of telling. We’re always telling students what to do, we’re always telling our children what to do. But if you change that a little bit. Instead of “put your jacket on” it can be like “what’s the temperature outside? What can you do to be prepared?” Little things like that. Asking. instead of telling. And encouragement, instead of praise. Some students they get so use to praise, that they do things just to receive praise. But encouragement is very specific. You’re focused more on the process. You’re focused on their thinking. You’re focused on the attempts that they are making even if the result is not what you want. You’re still encouraging them for their attempt. And that, can also foster empowerment. 15