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“College is surprisingly supportive if you are willing to look. There are so many resources and tutoring options that many people just aren’t aware of.” ADVICE 2 Where do you live and why? “Home. It’s cheaper to live at and commute, and it also gives me the comfort of a stable environment.” FROM AUTISTIC COLLEGE STUDENTS “Dorm because I like being in a community.” “A studio apartment because it is much cheaper than living in the dorms and because I can stay there for the remainder of my college education without having to move every year.” 3 How do you keep track of classes and assignments? B Y D A W N M A R O T T E I recently conducted a survey in which I asked six questions to autistic college students. The survey was anonymous, so students were encouraged to be very honest. Below are just few of the insightful answers I received. For more advice, I invite you to visit my website ASD-DR. 1 What supports do you receive in college, and how does it compare to high school? “I’ve learned there is a distinction between 42 ZOOM Autism through Many Lenses “Google Calendar, tons of Post-its, exchanging email with the teachers.” ‘supports,’ which I am responsible to figure out, and accommodations which are a legal right in college.” “I realized my grades would really suffer if I didn’t take advantage of the accommodations I was legally entitled to. The accommodations I get include double time on tests, consideration of excess absences, the ability to record lectures, the ability to type rather than handwrite in-class assignments and the ability to leave the classroom if I get too anxious.” “This is a skill I have developed with age and with finding a therapist who was willing to focus on my need for coping tools.” by the things that bother you as you do, so you need to tell people when it happens because they have no idea it’s happening otherwise.” “Spending time alone in lowsensory environments, especially nature.” “Hang in there, kid. Things will be rough for a while, but you’ll become tougher. Everything will be okay. Nothing is forever.” 5 How do you motivate yourself? “Don’t be afraid to use the skills you do have (typing) to communicate your needs to adults. They love you, and they will help you, whatever it takes. “By thinking that I am worth living like any other person and that I can obtain a degree despite hardships.” “I motivate myself by controlling my environment and planning daily time for intense exercise and nature.” “You’re not stupid. You’ve actually got autism and dyslexia, so go get tested and get some help.” “Scheduling everything (including food, exercise and sleep) in my Google Calendar with reminders helps as does having people around me to remind me to leave my room on occasion.” “I always print off my schedule in the beginning of the year and check it often.” 6 If you could go back in time and give a piece of advice to your high school self, what would it be? “I write down deadlines, meetings, etc. in a planner.” “I would tell myself to be more assertive.” 4 How do you handle stress? “For the love of God, stop worrying what others will think and ask for help if you need it.” “Tons of stimming. I have sound-muffling headphones that I keep in my bag with me constantly.” “No one else feels as agitated “Try harder to get supports. Also, make sure you’re eating!! Oh, and animation is way better than computer science.” “You’re not a freak. You don’t have ADD. You’re autistic, and you’re not broken.” Dawn Marcotte started www.ASD-DR.com to help families with autistic teens and young adults by providing information on over 300 colleges around the country that provide support for autistic students. The site also has information and tips directly from autistic college students. ZOOM Autism through Many Lenses 43