Owen: “If watching is all you’re gonna do,
you’re gonna watch your life go on without
you!” That’s also from the wise gargoyle Laverne. We all must do what is right for us to
live a great
and happy
life. It sometimes doesn’t
feel like it’s
within reach,
but it is. Each
morning, you
need to imagine yourself
in a larger
way. I think
we’re all really sidekicks,
searching within ourselves for the qualities of
the hero. And the greatest of those qualities is
helping others fulfill their destinies. Doing that,
you grow large and take a step on the path to
the greatest life.
“It’s hard sometimes to remember
who you are and what you’re capable of.
That’s because sometimes other people don’t
see it—the greatness you know is
in your heart.”
Just for Fun...
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Zoom: Coffee or Tea?
Conner: Disney movies have
helped us both communicate and
learn social skills. Is this still your
form of learning/improving your
communication? Can you explain
the best form of communication
for you?
Owen: I can have conversations
with others now. I still have all
the characters in my head. I add
new ones sometimes, some from
live action, too, or movies like Inside Out, which I loved. But conversation can be
hard. Often, you’re unsure what to say or what
Owen: Neither
Zoom: Dog or Cat?
Owen: Both
Zoom: Cake or Ice Cream?
Owen: Both!
Zoom: Mountains or Beach?
someone else is thinking. I work every day to
get better at that. Sometimes what I do is think
of scenes in my head an d think about what I’d
say if I was in
that scene, talking to the characters. It sometimes feels like I
can speak better
in the voice of
my favorites—
like Merlin or
Rafiki or Phil
from Hercules—
than in my own
voice. But as I
get older and see how so many movies are mirrors to life, it’s all becoming my voice.
“We all must do what
is right for us to live a
great and happy life. It sometimes doesn’t feel like it’s
within reach, but it is.”
Owen: Both!
Zoom: Movies or Reading?
Owen: Movies. Sorry, Mom.
Zoom: And last but not least, if you could
have any super power, what would it be
and why?
Owen: Good question. It’d be to . . .
ZOOM fast!
----Conner: What is in your future for your Happily Ever After?
Owen: Living a great, wonderful and happy
life, whatever lies ahead. I don’t know exactly
what that’ll be. We never know what lies in the
future. But whatever comes, I’ll find it.
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