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CUMMINGS AND GOINGS Conner, Chloe Rothschild & Ron Suskind from @Life Animated ing individuals had to say while making us in the audience think ‘out of the box.’ As, one-by-one, Steve called on them to answer questions, I heard Conner sitting beside me answering as well. I realized that I wanted to hear more of what Conner had to say, so I started taking notes so that I could ask Conner the questions later and discuss the panel’s answers. Each individual on the panel was just that, an individual, uniquely different from the others, representing the wide spectrum. T his summer, Conner and I were fortunate enough to be able to attend the Autism Society of America’s National Convention in New Orleans. Conner was one of the photographers, and his task was to take pictures of our personal journey at the convention. The choice of which sessions to sign up for was difficult as there were so many I wanted to attend, all conflicting with each other. Every session we were able to go to was informative and worth attending. A few that stood out for us were led by some of our friends. Chloe Rothschild’s “Strategies for Living with Autism, Road Bumps and All,” was insightful, and Jonathan Murphy along with his mom Jodi of Geek Club Books had the room laughing and learning while he shared his story – what a great combo! We even got to attend the renewal of wedding vows from Anita Lesko and Abraham Talmage Nielsen as they discussed romantic relationships. The final day was scheduled as a keynote by Steve Silberman, but he suggested instead that he host a panel of self- Conner, Alex Plank & Sharon advocates talking about topics of their choosing. Alex Plank, Jeff Staley, Chloe Rothschild, Lindsey Nebeker, John Newman Miller and Mike Buckholtz were all on the panel. All questions were directed to and about people on the spectrum. They covered a multitude of questions: What are the most damaging misconceptions played out in the media? Tell us one thing you wish people knew about Autism. What role does the internet play? Why should we care (or have discussions) about life experiences from brown peoples of Aboriginal, African and multiethnic decent? What changes can be made to facilitate employment and financial security? What are the most important things that neurotypicals can do to become better allies? The best part for me was that Conner was so interested and wanted to continue the discussion in the best way he learns … what we call a business plan. Conner’s wrote on Steve Silberman’s FB page, “I enjoyed so much my friends Chloe & Lindsey on the stage answering questions, and now I have five new friends on the panel. Me and my mom will be discussing today my own thoughts and what I heard from you.” Conner & Lindsey Nebeker Steve Silberman and the panel not only closed the event with one of the most informative and inspirational sessions we had ever attended, but also, Conner and I learned tools that will foster conversations for months to come. And we got to see a little bit of New Orleans with friends, too. Warmest regards, Sharon Cummings Executive Director/Co-Publisher & Founder [email protected] Sharon, Steve Silberman & Conner Elizabeth Roy @ASNV, Conner, Jodi Murphy & Jonathan Murphy You could hear a pin drop in the crowded auditorium as we all listened intently to what each of these six amaz- 42 ZOOM Autism through Many Lenses ZOOM Autism through Many Lenses 43