Dear Reader,
So I’m doing one of my favorite things the other night…walking around the supermarket talking on the phone to my mom, it’s my favorite because I can ask her all food related questions and as she spurts off ingredients I can go right to that aisle and load up my basket. I’m trying to find Sage and I have no idea where to look. I decide that when I see a worker I’ll ask them to point me in the right direction. I hear in my mother talking in my earpiece “how’s my baby doing?” and even though I’m old enough to have my own brood of kids I get sort of girly and my baby voice emerges from somewhere I thought was long forgotten. I’m doing good, mama! How’s my mama, mama doing? And the conversation continues. I learn all about the latest ‘happenings and going ons’ in the family and the conversation usually includes “baby if it ain’t one thing its another” a few times before final good nights are said. I’ve been walking around this supermarket for more than 20 minutes and every customer service associate just completely walks past me or ignores me. Whatever happened to someone approaching me and asking can I help you?
Have you ever tried to live your life with more authenticity? More positivity? More lovingly? You know, when someone you care about asks how you are doing you REALLY tell them. You don’t ‘sugar coat’ it or use any ‘filters’, you just be your authentic self and tell them how you’re really doing. You’ve tried to live positively and it seems that you are surrounded with negative vibes. People you meet avoid eye contact, salespeople look the other way when they see you coming, friends don’t return your text messages in a timely manner and family members are always talking about each other or have some sort of drama going on. Who doesn’t want more love? More love from a spouse, family members, and friends. I would love for my spouse to tell me he loves me every hour, I’d love for my family members to call me just to say I love you, girl! I’d love for my friends to sing I love you to the birthday song on my special day. Love. Wouldn’t life be more vibrant, more tolerable, and easier with more love?
So I’ve decided in this 2015 to live with more authenticity. I tend to be rather authentic but I’m sure I can dig deeper. When someone I care about asks how I’m doing I’m really going to tell them. I might leave a few details out, because I’m a work in progress, but I’m going to tell them if I don’t feel well, if I’m angry, depressed or completely overjoyed! If the laws of attraction are really real then I’m going to have a positive attitude and outlook thereby ‘attracting’ positive vibes, people, and circumstances my way! The same is true for love, my favorite book says if you want friends then be friendly. I suppose the same is true for love, if you want love then I have to be more loving! To my readers, join me in being more in 2015.
Positively authentic, lovingly yours,
Joyce.
Joyce Ndoria
KARMA
How people treat you is their karma//How you react is yours//Worthless people blame their karma//Before you begin on the journey of revenge//Dig two graves//Be happy//Do the best you can//Be good and kind//Good will be returned with good//Evil with evil//Be good to others and others will be good to you//Life is what you make of it//My religion is kindness and positive vibes//Live the life you love & love the life you live//Words can hurt so think before you speak//I believe in karma//You get what you give//My karma ran over your dogma//Always learn the rules//So you can break them properly//Be you// Be real//Spread love//Enjoy noble company//Believe in yourself
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