Of course, when the Christians took control, they got rid of them, and Rome
was duly sacked by invaders (390 AD by the Gauls, 410 AD by the Visigoths,
etc.) prompting St. Augustine to write some of the most worthless apologetic
drivel ever to befoul the human intellect. And by the way, for all you
Christians out there who take great pleasure in calling Mohammad a
pedophile: St. Augustine, the promoter of the doctrine of original sin and
most of what now passes for mainstream Christian dogma, also was
engaged to a child (he didn’t marry her, and may not have consummated
the relationship however).
Why this fascination by so many religions and cultures with a woman’s (and,
less often, a man’s) first sexual experience? There are scores of books out
there pondering this conundrum, many of which focus on the issue of the
breaking of the hymen and the fascination with and ignorance about the
process of procreation. Personally, I think it was partly an issue of the
woman’s inferior status in most societies; she was chattel. She was the
virtual property of her father, then of her husband, and in her later years
maybe her son. But to me, these explanations of past beliefs don’t matter at
all.
A virgin is just someone who lacks a certain form of experience. I suppose
you could say I am a “virgin” when it comes to skydiving—that is to say, I
have no experience of it. So, what do you do when something is reportedly
enjoyable and you lack experience in it? Get some experience, of course!
Read about it, watch films about it, ask other people about it, Google it,
search for it on YouTube, and find a partner that you trust who can teach
you about it. Easy enough. It’s no big deal, there is nothing magical or
mystical or particularly special about your first sex or your first orgasm,
other than the fact that it was the first one (hopefully in a long line of future
enjoyments). If you stop to think about it, your first tooth filling should
probably be more memorable—another person is violating your “inner
space”, there is significant pain (no pleasure here), and it probably lasts
longer than your first sexual encounter. But most people don’t remember it,
because it’s not fun and better forgotten. People talk about their “first time”
for sex (in my experience, with much embellishments and sometimes factual
errors in biology, but hey, I am a literalist), but I have never, ever, heard
anyone talk about their first tooth cavity filling.
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