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JODIE ARNOT, REGISTERED COUNSELLOR (M. COUNSELLING) Jodie is a registered counsellor providing support via telephone, Skype, and in-person, and is passionate about helping women to improve their relationship with their body so they can enjoy the freedom to live a life they adore. You can read more at www.jodiearnot.com.au or follow Jodie on Facebook @jodiearnotcounselling and Instagram @jodie.arnot.counselling MAINTAINING A BODY POSITIVE APPROACH TO EXERCISE DURING SUMMER Counsellor Jodie Arnot shares her tips for feeling good in your own skin this summer. t this time of year, messages about having a “beach- worthy” body are everywhere. We might attempt to alter our appearance via exercise in order to feel better about our body, but in reality, this often backfires. In fact, by using exercise to control our weight and appearance, we may unwittingly be damaging our body image. A Let’s talk about some ways that you can support and improve your body image via exercise. Remind yourself that body diversity is completely normal } } The media is filled with one type of male and female body, and there’s big dollars in selling “solutions” so that we can allegedly get closer to looking like this physique. But we are not all meant to look the same! } } The next time you are in a crowded place, take a look around at the variety of body shapes and sizes and compare this to what we see on TV and social media. } } Take a look at body positive media campaigns like “This Girl Can” and be reminded that bodies of all sizes can be fit and active. } } Detox your social media feed by removing accounts that make you feel bad about yourself, and expand who you follow to represent a range of body sizes and types. listen to and trust our own body. We might ignore pain, a need for rest, and our dislike for certain types of exercise, turning physical activity into punishment. Nurturing our bodies with feel-good physical activity helps us to build a more positive and trusting relationship with our body. When choosing your exercise, let enjoyment and feeling good steer your decision. } } How would a swim feel? } } Would a hit of tennis with friends be fun? } } Does a group fitness class always leave you smiling? Be kind with your clothes What we wear can have a significant impact on how we feel about our body. If clothes are digging in, or riding up, it can leave us feeling uncomfortable and keep us fixated on our body, instead of enjoying the moment. Clothes that fit well, help us to exercise without chafing or restriction, and assist us to let go of constant self-judgement. You deserve to have clothes that fit you well and feel good right now. Set goals that are not appearance-based It might seem inspiring to set goals that are about changing your appearance, however studies show that appearance changing motives for exercise are associated with more social physique anxiety, depression, and body dissatisfaction. People who exercise for non- appearance related reasons like enjoyment, skill building, and feeling good, stick to physical activity longer term. Perhaps you’d like to train towards a hike, improve your basketball skills, or feel more flexible? Start thinking about what you’d like to do for and with your body, rather than how you want to change its appearance. To find more information about body image visit www.jodiearnot.com.au Focus on enjoyment, and feeling good, not calories burned When we make calorie burning the focus, it compromises our ability to SUMMER 2020 YMCA HEALTHY LIVING MAGAZINE 19