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MIND MANAGEMENT In Search of an Adoring Partner By Chaina Karmakar Once the physical euphoria is gone, all our emotions get surfaced and we start exploiting the relationship for our own emotional need and we call it so-called unconditional love. I n my last eight years of the healing journey, I have come across so many people, who are in search of a loving, affectionate partner, irrespective of their marital status. Why marriages are failing? Why without a partner people are depressed and devastated? Are they able to understand the real meaning of exploration? After exploring enough are they able to understand the real meaning of their search or they land up in more misery? When I look at the data of people whom I have healed so far, the rate is really scary. People are yearning for companionship and longingness but at the same, they are not ready to give. I don’t want to judge them but they don’t have anything to offer. They offer depression, anger, irritation, frustration, insecurity, self- pity, etc, etc. The search is endless without any contentment. I can not rule out a particular pattern for this never-ending search 20 www.yogicherald.com Oct./Nov. 2019