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who is very shy, inward, poor in taking actions, implementations, it shows lack of male energy. Both are state of imbalances and if not handled in time, both would eventually result in disease or disorder. Now understand with an example how energy at home and conditioning of mind creates imbalance in us. Scenario I: How a strict, dominating father ‘A’ influences the growth of a son unknowingly. Because of his dominance, the son might feel discouraged, feared by the aggression of the father and learns to suppress his male energy. In adulthood it gets reflected as low sperm count, poor morphology, motility, azospermic, lack of desire to have sex, lack of overall action orientation. Serious Imbalance in male and female energy. Similarly a dominating and controlling woman “B”, can create the same impact on son & daughter, influencing their male & female energies. Suppression can be seen in other family members as well. Symptoms will be as obesity, low self esteem, fear, telling lies etc. Here the mother doesn’t allow the male energy of son, daughter or even husband to come out and slowly steadily they start feeling redundant. Lack of responsibility, action orientation are clearly visible. Scenario II : In case where the connection between mother and girl child is poor, mother being dominating, rebellion symptoms can be seen in girl child and she carries the dominant male energy and she repeats the same pattern as her mother does. It reflects in physical body also. Masculine built and in adulthood, it gets reflected in as physical disease or imbalance. Such as heavy menstrual cycle, infertility due to PCODs, blocked Fallopian tubes. This imbalance in male and female energy reflects in relationship also. If the wife is more action oriented, the male would demonstrate low action so as to create overall balanced state. And these family patterns repeat. You would often see that a male, who has a more dominant or decision making mother would have a wife with more or less same traits. If male-female energy is not balanced, it is reflected in their sexual energy as well. In case of female, the sexual energy is ever flowing and in case of males, it is sudden, not ever flowing unlike females. So in case of a female, who is more masculine or with more male energy, their aggression can be seen in sexual relationship, which makes a man repulsive about it. In case of a male, where female energy is excessive, their sexual energy is ever flowing and it gets triggered very easily. March 2019 www.yogicherald.com 49