Xtraordinary Women Magazine August/September 2015 | Page 82

                  The Sex Toy “Skandaal” During our search for satisfaction, sex toys are something that get dropped into the conversation at times. We’ve told you everything about Vibrators; from buying your first all the way to why they are so much fun. Still you haven’t done it. You’ve looked over and over at different toys, you’ve done your research but you haven’t taken the first step. Actually buying something. Walking into an adult store is very unsettling for most people - but luckily thanks to the wonderful wide web we now have online stores. Being anonymous never felt this good. Sex Toys are generally taboo in most homes so talking about it, or introducing it into your bed room shenanigans with your Mr or Mrs takes balls. I guess this is the hardest step to overcome. And then you probably also come clean to your best friend. Because let’s face it – she already knows too much. If she's anything like me her reaction would be like something out of the friends sitcom. In fact, if you are not sure if you should take the plunge or not - talk to your best friend ( the one who knows all your deepest darkest secrets and probably help put some of those skeletons in the cupboard). Finally - You need to understand that, as people we are so focused on our families/work etc that we don't realise that we also have needs, and by needs I mean RELEASE. Finding out what turns you on takes practice , and I'm not ashamed to say, lots of practice. The more you use your pelvic floor muscles the tighter they become. The tighter they become, the more explosive your orgasms. I  don't  think  you  need  more  convincing  than  that.             Sari  Cohen   Owner   Cell:  0827758960   Email:  [email protected]   Web:  www.alluresensuality.co.za