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The acceptance on the preference in a relationship is a situation that is evolving for good of the people. The first countries to legalize the gay marriage have seen positive results and start promoting the movement for other nations who demand this right that is for everyone, for the moment in Mexico is you can marry with a person of the same sex in certain states, in our entity Baja California you only have the state recognition. Having the right to conform a couple or even a family is a beautiful right everybody should enjoy, this would make them feel better in all aspect, it is proven that having a family make you be a more productive person at work, this because you have the motivation of your partner and children. If all these stats are proven and being together doesn’t affect others, what is stopping our country to legalize gay marriage? Probably the old taboos and wrong believes about what this people do, a lot of groups blame the LGBT community of social problems without thinking that any gender can take bad decisions and that is not an excuse to ban the right of getting marry. In other words, if is not your life and is not affecting you, why should you care if some else is happy and having a family when they are a lot of kids in orphanages and streets who would like to have at least someone who takes care of them. Being gay is not a decision you should be ashamed of, but is true that talking about this with your friends or family can be hard. If you are surrounded by persons who have old ideas or taboos about preferences in this topic it is easier to have fear and hide what you really feel. This ideas are impregnated from a long time ago, new generations are having more acceptance in this plight so for the future we may have a better society with empathy and respect. 44