The acceptance on the preference in a relationship is a situation that is evolving
for good of the people. The first countries to legalize the gay marriage have seen
positive results and start promoting the movement for other nations who demand
this right that is for everyone, for the moment in Mexico is you can marry with a
person of the same sex in certain states, in our entity Baja California you only have
the state recognition. Having the right to conform a couple or even a family is a
beautiful right everybody should enjoy, this would make them feel better in all
aspect, it is proven that having a family make you be a more productive person at
work, this because you have the motivation of your partner and children. If all these
stats are proven and being together doesn’t affect others, what is stopping our
country to legalize gay marriage? Probably the old taboos and wrong believes about
what this people do, a lot of groups blame the LGBT community of social problems
without thinking that any gender can take bad decisions and that is not an excuse
to ban the right of getting marry. In other words, if is not your life and is not
affecting you, why should you care if some else is happy and having a family when
they are a lot of kids in orphanages and streets who would like to have at least
someone who takes care of them.
Being gay is not a decision you should be ashamed of, but is true that talking about
this with your friends or family can be hard. If you are surrounded by persons who
have old ideas or taboos about preferences in this topic it is easier to have fear
and hide what you really feel. This ideas are impregnated from a long time ago,
new generations are having more acceptance in this plight so for the future we may
have a better society with empathy and respect.
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