WV Farm Bureau Magazine April 2013 | Page 12

Young Farmer and Rancher Update Susan Wilkins, YF&R Vice-chair I have often talked in this column of how much I admire and look up to the men in my family who have chosen farming as their fulltime profession. Being a farmer can sometimes be a thankless, discouraging job; and I am so proud of my dad, my brother, my grandfathers, and my uncles for their contributions to American agriculture. However, with last month being designated “Women’s History Month”, I am reminded of the great farming women in my family and how proud I am to be one of them. My paternal grandmother Dorothy Wilkins was born in 1905. My grandmother Wilkins held a deep love for farming and loved nothing better than traveling out to Sinks of Gandy and checking on her cattle. As a girl, she rode on horseback to help on a two day cattle drive to summer pasture in the Sinks. In later years, my grandmother was highly involved with the bookkeeping of the operation. My maternal grandmother Helen Wilfong was born in 1930. Grandma used to cook three huge meals each day for her husband and family, and the farm hands who lived with them, all while raising three children. Her invaluable contribution to the success of the family farm cannot be overlooked. Even now, Grandma’s kitchen table is where many farming decisions are discussed. I can’t talk about farm women without talking 12 West Virginia Farm Bureau News about my great aunt Ruth. Aunt Ruth just turned 90 years old and I can only hope that I have half her energy when I am 60. Aunt Ruth has been a part of the family farm all her life and you never know where you might find her – running around in her Gator, fixing the fence, tending her chickens, or hoeing her beautiful garden. My mom was born and raised on a farm and she loved raking hay in the summertime. For my parents’ first date, my dad took her to the stockyards to pick up a load of cattle in his cattle truck. He laughs that if she had been too good to ride in his truck, then he wouldn’t have been interested. She must have passed the test, because they have now been married for 32 years. In addition to working as our county’s 4-H agent, my mom is our farm’s “financial consultant” and bookkeeper. The women in my family have always been, and continue to be, deeply involved with the family business of farming – just like countless other women. We can never overlook the tremendous contributions farm women make to this industry – whether it is as a fulltime farmer, farm wife, parttime helper, or bookkeeper. I am extremely thankful that from the time I was small I was encouraged to be an active part of the farm. And I am truly honored and humbled to be able to follow in the footsteps of strong, independent women like my grandmothers, my Aunt Ruth, and my mother.