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PRESS CONTROL THEN CLICK BUY TO PURCHASE A BOOK Life Stories I'VE GOTTA BE ME TONY "NAP" NAPOLI EXCERPT FROM HIS BOOK "MY FATHER, MY DON" TONY "NAP" NAPOLI WITH A PICTURE OF HIS FATHER Our Life Story for this issue is the first chapter of Tony "Nap" Napoli's compelling book My Father, My Don. This is adult reading with some violence, but it is the raw truth. You can read the rest of Tony's story in the book. You may notice this is longer than our feature normally is, but is so powerful it deserved the extra space. Tony "Nap" Napoli transitioned from a checkered past that included the Mob and alcoholism into a life of Sobriety with the help of Spirituality, his Higher Power. His objective has been to find a better way in life by staying sober and through sobriety found Faith, Hope, Strength, Knowledge, and Experience. He enjoys great satisfaction from belonging to an organization called Ring 8 Veteran Boxers Association of NY. which allows him to help indigent fighters with financial help, medication, etc. Since July 11, 1994 he has been a volunteer, helping Veterans to fill out the required VA forms when applying for their service-connected disabilities benefits. He charges no fee and it allows him to give to others and make amends for those he's harmed. BUY IT WAS A COLD NOVEMBER afternoon in 1993 when, in a feverish burst of fury, I pulled the young punk's pants down to his ankles and cut his balls off with the switchblade that he had stupidly pulled on me. The students and teacher crowded together in the back of the classroom, their backs against the large map of the world. They were probably scared that they might be next. After all, I must have looked like some mad drunk wildly slashing a student. For what reason? How would they know? They were just part of a freshman biology class at a community college in New York City. If every man has his moment of clarity, this was mine. As I looked down at the punk-spurting blood from where no man wants to bleed from-I thought about how he had put his filthy hands on my daughter. He was going to pay for what he had done. And he was going to pay for everything that I had done to everyone and for everything that had been done to me. He was the sacrificial lamb, the beast of burden who would take the brunt of every terrible memory I stored inside of me. The memories were maki