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WORSHIP TEAM HOW TO RECOGNIZE TEAM MEMBER BURNOUT | Jon Nicol Levi* was toast. Unfortunately, it was early in my there might be something going on. It could just 10. DISCONNECTION FROM GOD. ministry and I didn't pick up on the signs soon be an off-night for him/her. But pay attention to This might be tough to gauge, but you'll pick enough. patterns of disconnect. up hints. With all these signs of burnout, and especially this one, you'll need to trust your Levi was my ‘go-to’ utility player. I scheduled him 4. ME-FOCUSED. instincts and nudges from the Spirit as you most Sundays of the month on either electric When someone's burned out, he’s/she's interact with team members. guitar or bass. And when neither of the two become so emotionally and physically spent regular drummers could play, he'd happily fill in that they have little capacity to put others first. WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU SEE IT on the set. I always joked that I wanted to clone If a once selfless person is acting like a jerk, When a person is experiencing burnout, you Levi. Unfortunately, I treated him like there were something's going on in their heart. have to take action. First, they need to know you care more about them as a person than the role three of him. 5. CALLS ATTENTION TO BUSYNESS & STRESS. they play on the team.  After a few years of this high-octane participation, Some people talk all the time about how busy Levi flamed out. He hadn't been his usual they are. It's almost a badge of honor. But when Second, they need time off to rest. A Sunday friendly-self for a while. But one Sunday he was a team member who doesn't typically complain off here or there won't cut it. When someone surly and distant and left before I could connect about busyness starts talking about feeling is experiencing burnout, they need real rest. I with him. That afternoon, I got an email that from overwhelmed, pay attention. would suggest that you give that person at least three months off. They could easily need more. If him that read, "I'm done.” After walking through this with Levi (and a few other team members), I 6. COMPLAINING. you have to go without a specific instrument for a learned to keep my relational radar on for signs If a team member is burned out, it might not be season, it's OK. Your team member's emotional of burnout. So, I wanted to share ten signs that the stress their griping about. When someone runs and spiritual health is far more important than could point to burnout. When you start seeing their emotional and physical tanks on "empty," the musical quality of your worship service. these signs, run towards them. When you catch the only thing that seems to flow out naturally is You might be tempted to think otherwise. If you burnout early, the chances of seeing that person negativity. So, when complaining starts to become do, you may contribute to the list of casualties fully healthy and serving again on your team is the norm, you know something is wrong. made by the "church machine" that uses people instead of loves them. so much higher. 7. TIRED/LETHARGIC. 10 SIGNS OF TEAM MEMBER BURNOUT  Our bodies aren't wired for constant stress. Rest Third, encourage the team member to seek 1. CONSTANT MOODINESS. and margin were prescribed and modeled by professional counseling during this time. The Moodiness is a sign that 'something' is going on. God. If a once energetic person starts routinely behavior that led to burnout is a symptom of Even if the negative mood is circumstantial and dragging himself in, find out what's going on. a deeper heart wound. If they only treat the symptoms, they won't ever find wholeness.  may be short-lived, as the shepherd of your team, it can't hurt to ask, "Is everything going OK?" If 8. APATHY. the moodiness becomes a weekly occurrence, It's easy to stop caring when you're burned out. And that's what we want—emotionally whole start asking deeper and more direct questions. Ministry loses its meaning. Your team member and spiritually healthy people helping lead may adopt a ‘who cares’ attitude: why bother our gathered worship. So be alert for signs of doing it, or at least doing it well?  burnout. The sooner you can recognize and deal 2. DIMINISHED PREPARATION. with it, the sooner your team member can get The lack of practice is always a cause for the rest and restoration he or she needs. concern. But be mindful when the person who 9. NO SHOWS OR SHOWS UP LATE. typically makes practice a priority suddenly On the surface, this behavior seems due to starts arriving unprepared. excessive activities and stress. But I have to *Names and details are changed. wonder if it also isn't a subtle cry for help, or Jon Nicol Jon’s the founder of WorshipWorkshop.com and WorshipTeamCoach.com, two sites that help worship leaders build strong teams and lead engaging worship. He lives and serves in Lexington, Ohio with his wife Shannon and their four kids. WorshipWorkshop.com WorshipTeamCoach.com 3. DISCONNECTED FROM OTHERS. even a subconscious attempt to get removed If your once-friendly team member comes to from the team. rehearsal and doesn't engage with the team, 68 September 2019 Subscribe for Free...