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values are important and how we have seen God use them over and over again to help fuel an effective ministry. When you have a list of unbiased values, it is much easier to move forward and make small corrections along the way when you see dips in personal life styles and behaviors. This also allows the leaders to be held accountable for the same standards as the team members. I highly suggest you do this if you haven’t already. I have included a sample to the right of the values that we use to help you as you formulate the values for your team. TIP NUMBER TWO. Value People Over Process. They say people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. As musicians, we can often make the mistake of valuing the end result, the music, the process or the product over people. This is a recipe for disaster and conflict. People join worship teams for community, to add value to their lives on our teams. Some of the healthiest teams machine, doesn’t mean that there is a lack of and to serve the church. Most people don’t join I’ve ever seen are the ones that are constantly conflict. Be honest with yourself and go ask the your ministry because they’re looking for a gig. doing things together outside of ministry like hard questions. A discovery phase may lead It helps us to remember that and to add value cookouts, meet-ups and ‘friends-giving’ type you to see the conflicts that are truly beneath to people along the way when we experience holidays together. If your team is too big to the surface. We should constantly be striving to some of these conflicts. do that, then you may need to work towards make sure that everyone is doing well. making smaller pockets of community within I try to make it a habit that anytime I see red flags your team. Our goal should always be to make In closing, we could devote our entire lives to on our team, or conflict rising, I stop and remind sure that someone has a place of belonging. studying conflict resolution and only scratch myself that this is a real person going through the surface. Ministry is challenging. People are a difficult time. It also helps to remind yourself TIP NUMBER THREE. Pay Attention. challenging. You may actually feel a little over that just like you, they have a family and a life A lot of times we may have conflicts on our whelmed right now with your current situations with an entirely set of unique problems that you team that we don’t even know about. The that you are going through and wonder if you may not know about. Our first step in helping bigger your team is and the higher up you get, will be able to navigate through it. I want to resolve conflict is to get to know their unique the further removed you are from the small encourage you with what the Bible says, in situation intimately and personally and with as realities and happenings of everyday life. I’ve Jesus’ words, “Come to me, all you who are much grace and understanding as possible. served with many church leaders that have a weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Before we try to correct anyone, we need to completely incorrect perspective of the health Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I put ourselves in their shoes and ask ourselves, of their team. It’s easy to assume that everyone am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find ‘What’s really going on here?’ Your sound guy is doing fine because most people don’t want rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my might seem frustrated because the reverb unit to cause big problems. The reality is, until you burden is light.” - Matthew 11:28-30. We can isn’t working properly for the 20th time, but the really start looking around talking to people, you rest in the fact that God cares for His people, reality is, maybe he and his wife are struggling. may not truly know the sorts of conflicts that and we can lean on the power of the Holy Spirit Or maybe his kids are going through a difficult exist on your watch. to guide us through our most difficult struggles! time. Every few months, we should be doing a mental As the leader, it is our responsibility to make survey of the land to really look around and sure we know what’s happening deep within make sure everyone’s truly OK. Just because the hearts of the people that serve faithfully our ministry is working like a finely oiled September 2019 Brian Michael Fuller Brian is a composer, multi-instrumentalist and worship musician who currently serves as the worship arts pastor at Newhope Church in Durham, North Carolina. You can hear some of his original production music at www.fullertime.com. The pad sets that he has designed are exclusively available at www.worshiptutorials.com and have sold over 50,000 copies. www.FullerTime.com Subscribe for Free... 61