making choices that are not towards growth really set out a bunch of rules, but set out a look to people on stage with a microphone,
and humility, and making choices that hurt the bunch of core values. We will be people that look to people in your church. And sometimes
rest of the team, you can work yourself out of want to grow. We will be people that will receive a mother or father doesn’t have to be someone
this role.” feedback. We will be people that will love each super old either (laughs). Banning is only a
other and seek to walk in humility and serve couple years older than me and sometimes
So, in my head it’s not that you got kicked out, each other. We will be people that will assume he’s like a brother, but most of the time he’s like
you put yourself out. You made these choices the best of each other. When there is an issue a father in my life. It doesn’t always have to be
that put you out here, and I make sure that we will go directly to that person and talk it out, someone necessarily who could biologically be
people understand that. And all that to say, the we won’t hold grudges. These are all incredible your mother or father.
trust goes both ways. The reason that I have core values that help the team be healthy and so much trust in my team that I can just step help the team move forward. But it also sets Number two, spend some time with your heart
back when they feel something and go for it, a standard that says, “If you are not living at and spend some time in prayer asking God
and I’ll follow them… is because of all of these this standard you can work yourself off of this to reveal some places inside of you that need
moments off stage when they were confronted. team.” work. Maybe you need some inner healing.
When they were pushed, when they were given
Maybe there is some unforgiveness in your
feedback, and they responded with, “I want to Okay, some practical’s! You want to be a life, or maybe there are some wounds from
grow, I am humble, and I love you too (laughs).” worship leader and you want to be a good your childhood. Just wanting to get your heart
These were the kinds of responses that came leader. You want to be someone people can to a really healthy place. If it’s a struggle to be
out of them, and that is why that trust is there. trust and want to follow. Eventually you want doing that on your own go to a counselor. Talk
to be a mother, a father. Number one, getting to someone who has wisdom in this area, even
Some of that comes from having core values. mothers and fathers in your life, and I talked if all you know how to say is, “I want to be a
It may be good as a team to sit down and, not about that before, pray and ask God, don’t just better version of myself, and I want to be able
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