works and how to use it positively in communicating personal needs and discovering solutions. Clients often did not know
what they specifically wanted. Instead of telling her outright
what their needs were, clients often asked her what she could
provide. However, it is entirely possible to go incrementally
from a state of confusion and stagnation to complete success.
Rebeka follows and recommends certain formulas for getting
out of several kinds of negative states. She explained that,
“We have to change our being by understanding each piece
of information and using it to take the next steps. Separating
oneself from anxiety, negative beliefs, and negative emotions
will facilitate this growth.”
Ms. Shadpour further explained that finding a balance of where
and how to release money and give it away will garner success
in finding employment, creating opportunity, saving money,
and investing it wisely to create the largest and fastest profit.
Rebeka strives to create a win-win financial situation for everyone she assists. Oftentimes, she found that people either hold
onto their money too tightly or swung the other direction and
overspend. It is something also seen frequently in business.
Additionally, Rebeka observed that parents who always spend
money freely on their children but do not teach them how to
use money, often creating a trap. This cycle then leads to what
she calls an entitlement to money that may evolve into criminal
activity. Without finding that balance between saving, investing, and
spending, disaster awaits. On the other hand, some people never
learned how to give and take, finding themselves quickly fooled
interesting four years. With the belief she had, Rebeka reversed
by predatory individuals and businesses. Another formula Rebeka
foreclosures for her clients and helped them to regain hope. The
firmly believes in is in finding the roots of a problem, creating the
meltdown touched everyone, regardless of income or social status
ability to distinguish possible outcomes before disaster strikes. She
of her clientele. Ms. Shadpour worked with celebrities and multi-mil-
explains that people have difficulty confronting problems. People
lionaires and the commonality was that they were struggling with
have one thing in common: fear. The way we deal with that fear
the financial crisis, just like everyone else in the country. She had
is what sets us apart from everyone else.
her difficulties but was able to rise above and continued to increase
her fame in the community.
As a personal coach, Ms. Shadpour explains that you can bring
more hope and value to people when you separate yourself
The next question that occurred to Rebeka was how she could
from fear. Confronting that problem head-on is what she has
further help her community. Rebeka’s bread and butter these days
used with her clients to bring them out of anxiety and misery
come from investments, buying, selling, rehab properties, and
very quickly. People often have a negative association with
her expertise in luxury properties. She has also found fulfillment
the word ‘problem.’ The definition of a problem is that it is
in earning her clients’ trust not only in finances, but also in their
something unknown to a person. Once you take away that fear
personal lives and the difficulties found within their family dynamic.
and negative connotation, what is left is simply the unknown.
Oftentimes, her clients were dealing with divorce and debt. Rebeka
Making that separation is what paves the way toward finding
strives to provide emotional support by learning how the mind
a solution to the problem.
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