Women's Network September 2018 | Page 44

level, so faking it definitely won't work, or at least it won't work for long. Nicole Jones, from Market Me Marketing said not only are our lives played out on social media, making it hard to maintain a lie, it's easy to "Google' someone to find out what's really going on. “A large percent of the population has grown up with blatant advertising and have learned the tricks of the trade used to coerce us into buying something, so we are a lot savvier than before,” she said. “However, the human brain still makes decisions the way it has for generations, by 'gut instinct'. Using our memory and basing decisions on emotive reasons, which is why people can get 'sucked in' by fake personal brands such as Belle Gibson. “People connect with authenticity. When you present as a ‘real’ person, it makes people feel comfortable." 44 Women’s Network Magazine “Belle appeared to be totally open and honest, sharing her cancer story with the world, opening up and being vulnerable. Then sharing her nutritional solution, which had thousands following her, soaking up her advice. Until they discovered she had created the entire story.” Yet, Nicole believes there is a need to be human, to be real, to be honest, “Especially with our personal brand, but the fact remains, the brain also cannot take its eyes off a train smash. The natural attraction to gossip and drama is what continues to sell magazines and newspapers and it’s the same with social media,” she said. “Real-life, open and honest stories of your struggles will get more clicks, more interaction, more eyeballs. But if you are faking that too, is it just click bait. It's not a case of do you share the good with the bad, more a question of balance and being real.” For Nicole, the ultimate questions are “are you projecting the reality of your brand? How much is make