Women's Network July 2018 | Page 26

IT’S OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO GIVE BACK TO THE COMMUNITY When circumstances happen in our life like a near death experience with breast cancer it changes the way that we think about our future and how we spend those precious moments with the ones we love. It also reminds us that we can each give something special back to acknowledge the generosity of others who go the extra mile to support those who are struggling to rebuild their lives. My unique custom- designed jewellery is just one small way that I can inspire others to live the life of their dreams with a little help from a caring and supporting community. W hen circumstances happen in our life like a near death experience with breast cancer it changes the way that we think about our future and how we spend those precious moments with the ones we love. It also reminds us that we can each give something special back to acknowledge the generosity of others who go the extra mile to support those who are struggling to rebuild their lives. My unique custom-designed jewellery is just one small way that I can inspire others to live the life of their dreams with a little help from a caring and supporting community. Kassandra Behrendt is a self-taught fashion jewellery designer and has been weaving her craft for 20+ years. It started out as a hobby. A few pieces here and there. Design a necklace to compliment this outfit, design a pair of earrings to compliment that outfit. Women 26 Women’s Network Magazine soon noticed and requested their own custom-made pieces. Suddenly Kassandra was in demand and the hobby turned into an actual business (much to Kassandra’s surprise and delight.) After being diagnosed with grade-3 breast cancer at the age of 42, followed by a double mastectomy, chemotherapy, radiation, breast reconstruction and depression, she decided to take charge of her life instead of being scared of her own shadow. A survivor of childhood abuse and with the added trauma of her near-death experience with breast cancer, Kassandra was incredibly grateful to be alive. She felt a strong desire to give back. Give back to the other survivors of breast cancer and to help women and children who are victims of domestic violence. But how could she help? What was she trained for? What could she possibly do to ease the pain of women and their children suffering domestic violence? Kassandra believes that we live a privileged life here in Australia and we have an obligation to give back to our community and to those who are less fortunate. Over the years, Kassandra volunteered at not-for-profit organisations like Soroptimist International (a volunteer women’s organisation) as well as Australian charities. Whilst volunteering, Kassandra discovered that although volunteers were a significant asset, charities needed more than volunteers. For these charities to continue their efforts in supporting survivors of domestic and family violence they needed cold hard cash! Women have resilience, an inner strength, but sometimes we need support (emotional, financial) to help us tap into that strength.