Women's Network April 2018 | Page 12

Q WHO WAS YOUR BIGGEST INFLUENCE IN YOUR SPORTING CAREER Steve Andersen (with Kerri Pottharst) was my coach for 16 years. Steve’s influence was ‘development by discovery’ rather than telling you what to do (instructional). He would say “I don’t know, you need to work it out yourself”- a real ‘teach a man to fish’ mentality. WHAT ARE YOUR STRATEGIES FOR DEALING WITH FAILURES? TELL US A LITTLE BIT ABOUT NATALIE COOK I love adventure, winning and travel. I like to help others and make a difference in the world and make others lives better. An important focus is being big on family and bringing everyone together – I want to take everyone with me to the top of the mountain. Inspiring the next generation to dream big and chase their dreams is important to me. I’m a down to earth country girl from Townsville with a huge sense of humour. WHAT IGNITED THE SPARK IN YOU TO START YOUR VOLLEYBALL JOURNEY? There was a Volleyball trip to Canada and America on the school noticeboard. I was 14 at the time and all I wanted to do was go to Disneyland. I didn’t know how to play volleyball. I played lots of sports and was a swimmer at the time - I got sick of following the black line. Volleyball got me as I wasn’t naturally good at it and couldn’t understand why I was so bad. So then I spent the next 25 years trying to master it. 12 Women’s Network Magazine We sometimes lost more volleyball matches than we won. We often make the rules so strict about winning and at times it doesn’t happen, so you need to make it your own way. There is a need to make small wins that are achievable, to make you feel like a winner. What you do next is important and character building so we were trained to always look forward and left it to the coach to look at the past in order to do things better. WHAT ARE YOUR TOP 3 SKILLS IN BUSINESS? Persistence, resilienc, courage, connections and being bold (I like to break the rules sometimes) Resilience is the ability to keep going. When you arent getting the right signals and it feels like a ‘no go’: belief, faith and trusting in yourself is key. Your self talk is so important, you must say it is going to happen repeatedly until it becomes your truth. Make bold decisions and step out of your comfort zone. EXCLUDING YOURSELF, WHO DO YOU ADMIRE THE MOST? Kurek Ashley, our success coach for the Olympics when we won gold, Hayley Birtles-Eades, she’s got a huge personality and everlasting energy. Greg Norman and Michael Jordan for obvious reasons. WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE MOST REMEMBERED FOR? Having the courage to be myself! Being willing to say yes! Being real, showing people that you don’t have to be someone else. HOW DO YOU START YOUR DAY? I have no alarm clock, my daughter is my alarm between 6.30 and 7am. Having a cuddle is the greatest way for me to start my day. I hold her hand going down the stairs, we do a puzzle, maybe read a book. I love doing simple family things like breakfast with my family. My time with my daughter is my zen. Then I try and get to yoga I truly believe mindfulness and movement is lifechanging. WHAT’S A BOOK THAT CHANGED YOUR MINDSET? The Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman. This international bestseller conveys piercing truths and humorous wisdom, speaking directly to the universal quest for happiness. WHAT’S YOUR STRATEGY TO STAYING FOCUSED? Start with the end goal in mind. Looking forward reminds me to keep taking the steps needed to achieve my goals. In sports psychology we refer to it as outcome versus process. Focusing on the process is important, but for me the outcome always comes first, it needs to be so purposeful and so inspiring that it brings you to your end goal no matter the obstacles. It is a paradox in the end that you are constantly looking up to the end game whilst giving 100% in your daily process. Vision is so important but you need to marry it with action!