Women Shining Magazine Women Shining Spring 2018 | Page 35

She-Vivor The ‘Search or Hunt’ to find The Perfect Partner creates hugely unreasonable expectations that might get in the way of connecting and experiencing the love we’re longing for. Instead, search for and embrace a good enough partner Someone who has the qualities and characteristics that you personally believe can provide a sound relational home for you to grow and to love in. Start right now thinking about the qualities that move your soul... I wager there are a few that are all important to you. You may be surprised that your partner has many of those qualities. Or, you may find that the special someone you have waiting for has been right under your nose all along... you have been looking in all the wrong places. Follow Annie G as she faces her challenges/your challenges. Moments of victory, moments of awakening with a determination to never again ‘Vote’ herself out of her life. 33