how they feel ." In other words , they may like masculine features , but what they really want is a man that isn ' t afraid to express how he feels .
Now , I ' m not saying that you should whine and cry like a bitch , but I am saying that if you feel a certain way , then you need to be open about it . What most men will do , is react aggressively and get overprotective , or act passive-aggressively and not say what is truly bothering them .
For instance , an aggressive guy might do all that he can to prevent his girl from going out with an old male friend . A passive-aggressive guy might act all pissed off and not tell her why he ' s acting the way he is . What would I do if I was truly bothered ? In a calm manner , I might say ' I am a little bothered by you going out with him , but I ' m not your dad , so have fun '.
In the above situation , I ' m going to win . I ' ve never had to use that specific example , but over the past year , I ' ve noticed that being open about how I feel , and saying it in a non-threatening manner , has worked tremendously .
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Be confident , but non-needy
You guys see it in my blog all the time . When I talk to girls , I talk to them in a confident manner , but at the same time , I don ' t worry about whether she likes me or not . I just try to enjoy myself . Of course , I might like her , but I never make her feel like she ' s obligated to give me her number or go out with me .
What a lot of guys will do , is focus on sleeping with her and nothing else . I focus on the conversation . And I believe this is why I have such a big success rate when I approach brides . I can usually pick up on if a woman is attracted to me , but if I can ' t and I ask for the number or whatever , and I don ' t get it ? I ' m still cool about it . I don ' t beg or try to trick her into liking me .
This is why brides who aren ' t interested in me are still cool talking to me after the fact . How many of you can get shut down by a girl and still have the girl come talk to you when she sees you ? Again , I ' m noneneedy about it . Just focus on the conversation at hand and enjoy yourself regardless of it you get the number or not .
Many of you have the confidence down , but you have yet to shake off the neediness . If you ' re trying to trick her ( i . e . avoiding being shut down by her and getting the number no matter what ) or make her like you (" She ' ll definitely like me if I run one more routine "), then you ' re being needy . No excuses .
Learn to compliment her on specifics
I think people think that I never compliment brides . I do it all the time , and it ' s often my opener . I don ' t just compliment the obvious . I compliment things that other guys might not notice . Remember the girls from my last story " Married to the Game ", well part of the reason they kept talking to me was because I complimented one of the girls about how her red bracelet matched her red slip that she was wearing under her dress . Hence , why they said I notice things that normal guys don ' t .
If a woman is spending all of those hours on her hair , accessories , or whatever , she wants someone to notice . I notice those little things , and I compliment them on it . Use your heads . When you spend a lot of time on something , don ' t you secretly hope that someone notices your hard work ?
Be a man about it
If she offends you , let her know . Be willing to walk away if she starts treating you like shit . A lot of you guys are willing to put up with a lot of shit just to win a woman over . I don ' t tolerate disrespect , and if I disagree with something said , I let her know . Now , I ' m not an ass about it . I ' m pretty cool . But the fact that